words matter, so does the tone of your voice!
I have felt very convicted over a 3 word phrase that I probably use every single day. The words aren’t ugly or said hatefully, but I believe the conviction came because they imply an emotion that could be perceived as hurtful.
Wanna know what it is?
“I don’t care.”
Whenever the kids ask me for something, like a snack or to watch a certain show, rather than give a simple yes, I typically say “I don’t care.” I’m not really sure how this came to be and it never stuck out to me until recently. But I don’t like it. Why would I tell my children I don’t care about anything?! Because truthfully, I DO care…about every little thing that concerns my people.
Out of curiosity, I googled the phrase. The results really hit home.
“Saying “don’t mind” sounds very polite and gentle. It’s like the person is saying “It’s…
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